The best time to give is when you don’t want to. Sometimes it isn't only when you don't want to, but what you don't want to give also. Thus the fruit of the Spirit is enhanced or conceived when the surrender is made.
When I see the division, within and without all sects of people in this country, I wonder how we got to this place. Divide and Conquer works very well. Is it possible that this has all been planned and the conquer is a short ways ahead?